Encouragement to Parents about the Baptism of Children
In the last point of yesterday's sermon, I shared some encouragement and guidance for parents as they shepherd their children toward baptism. In case you missed it, I want to post it here:
It is common for the children of believers who grow up actively involved in the church to profess faith in Jesus at an early age. This response to the gospel is wonderful! Do not discourage children from receiving Jesus and expressing their faith in him. The Lord can save a child at any age. We unashamedly want to see children saved at a young age.
However, when it comes to whether a child is ready for baptism, we should look for some specific markers of maturity. In baptism, a believer should make a credible, mature, responsible profession of faith. Young children love the Lord with their hearts easily. As they grow, they come to cognitively grasp the gospel and its significance. As they mature into their teen years, they learn that trusting and obeying Jesus can be challenging, and they must count the cost and continue to volitionally embrace him. A credible profession of faith involves all three of these: the heart, the mind, and the will.
We desire to see a child make a credible profession of faith that our elders and church members can witness. For these reasons, typically, children are teens before we see this level of baptismal maturity.
Parents, the evangelism and discipleship of your children are among the most important roles you have! Remember the refrain, “time will tell.” As your child grows, you will observe their spiritual development. Hold forth the gospel and teach your children to love and obey Jesus by faith. Teach them that faith saves, not baptism. Look for signs of regeneration and the work of the Spirit in their attitudes and behaviors. Point them to baptism, teaching them what it is—the time for the church and elders hear a mature, credible profession. Teach them about the blessing and goodness of a church that loves them by confirming their profession and giving them assurance that they appear to be in Christ.
Baptism is not about being “old enough” or reaching an arbitrary age. It is about the new birth and the maturity to personally own walking as a disciple of Jesus.
For His Glory,
Pastor Thomas
